Feb 15, 2009

meaningless post...

Been a while since I updated... this is one of those pretty meaningless posts i guess...

Nothing much been going on...as usual... but I went for basketball training yesterday and it was hell...haha.. Coz there were only two girls... and the girl trainer didn't come so we had to join in with the guys.. when they did all those stamina training ... I was all out of water... quickly went to buy water.... else might have collapsed..haha... when we came back they were done with the torture... but i guess this is due to the fact that i haven't been exercising much.... grr... and haven't been losing weight ... but hopefully i wont be too lazy..hehe...

Ohh...and before basketball yesterday had lunch with yimin and peiwen... then yimin told us about their class seeing a guy with a bouquet (argh...how do you spell that word??) of roses yesterday so they decided to stick around and see the girl... but then.... no girl appeared...instead...it was another guy..... o.O ... they were shocked... i didn't see it myself but i suppose... that's the way the world is now eh... people being more open about themselves...so much more expressive.. (i shared the story with mum, dad and bro and dad was disgusted..coz of the money the dude wasted after being sent there by parents and stuff..)
even before practice I was at the cafeteria reading something...then a couple walked in... girl with a rose in hand.. the guy carrying her stuff i think.. then i was checking the time when i saw them hugging... "odd place to hug" was all that I thought of... when suddenly they kissed on the lips ...surprisingly i wasn't disgusted.... haha... all i thought about was how open they could be and how unsuitable the location was -.- ...

Then during dinner we were watching Miss Potter ... and bro and I were arguing with Dad about the setting of the movie and all those social stuff in that time... and then came the part where Miss Potter and Mr Warne kissed and it was a very mild one.. then I said "Last time don't have like that one" ... Then dad said "I know lahh... and you're not supposed to see this." ... which was really a (-.-)''' moment because...

1. I have watched lots of movies with dad.. and some of them do involve kissing
2. I'm 17... surely I have seen movies that do involve kissing ... because when you're this old you'll definitely come across some movies of that kind...
3. We have been to weddings where the newly-weds were forced to kiss each other..
4. We have been overseas to countries with... rather expressive people..
5. Even books talk about kissing....

It got me thinking if it really was a BAD thing... if it was a SIN... i mean.. kissing is another way of expressing love, no? when people see kissing on the cheeks it is more acceptable somehow... watching it doesn't mean we will do it.. and this led to the wondering of whether Asians of the generation above us ever kiss each other... if all they ever do was... talk.. laugh.. tickle.. come to think of it ... tickling does involve some physical-ness doesn't it? and you don't exactly tickle random people... you tickle your loved ones... friends and family usually..

told you it was a meaningless post ..haha.. hmm... i'm 1 hr and 17 minutes late but Happy Valentine's Day everyone ...

-llen-

2 Comments:

Blogger Shannon said...

so u concluding the post with, if i love u, i should tickle you? haha

the part about the generation before us ever kissed? i wonder too sometimes... hahaha... how do they express their love? holding hands? -.-"

9:01 AM  
Blogger llen said...

haha.... u have tickled me before mah :) ... and we tickle chel all the time... shows how much we love her ;)

haha... hold hands really... -.-''' .. but maybe that's their way ...

12:37 AM  

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